Enough Already! 15 Things About my husband has destroyed me emotionally We’re Tired of Hearing


My husband has destroyed my ability to love him.

Our love has not only been destroyed, it has had the opposite effect, and we are now all looking at each other with our hair standing on end and our heart racing. My husband has been so distant for so long that I can’t look at him anymore. I can’t touch him because I’m afraid he’ll find out I’m the one who is emotionally destroyed. I am so sad for him, I can’t believe he does this to me.

As much as I want to blame my husband, I blame myself. I was so sure he would never intentionally hurt me. He has not only hurt me emotionally, he has destroyed me in every way. He is still the most wonderful man in the world, but he has destroyed his relationship with me, and I am so sad for him. He deserves better.

I’m sure a lot of you reading this right now are thinking, “Yes, that sounds like bad news.” No. It doesn’t sound that bad. It isn’t like he has destroyed you because of a mistake or something. It is more like he has destroyed you because of his selfishness.

This is a very common question. I know it doesn’t seem like a big deal and that it’s common for people to ask this, but the fact is that a lot of times people are so wrapped up in the way they are with their own lives that they don’t recognize how devastating their current relationships are.

Its just as well that the people that have destroyed you most arent around to see the devastation when they come back. It may be difficult to recognize, but they will eventually come back, and if they do you will be in a much better place, and you will be able to see your friends, family, and loved ones for who they are.

I see this all the time. I was talking to a friend of mine during a recent phone call. I said something like, “I feel like I’m so trapped in my own life. There’s so much noise and so much information that I don’t know what to do with. I feel like I’m drowning.” We both burst out laughing because that’s exactly the feeling I had right then.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like it when my husband puts himself in charge of me. I want him to be safe, and I want him to love me. I want him to be the one who takes care of us. I want him to be the one who cleans the house and cooks for us. And I want him to be the one who says, “I love you, Mom.

I know, I know, you are probably feeling like this right now. It is an amazing feeling, but it is also a terrible feeling. It means that you feel like you have control over your own life, but you don’t have control over his. It means that you are losing your power. It means that you are about to experience a level of loss you don’t ever want to experience again.

But you know what? It doesn’t have to be this way. There are ways to change this. I’ve been through this before, I know how to take care of myself and be a bit more patient with my husband. I know what to expect from him when the shit hits the fan, and I know exactly how to handle that. I have tried to make myself feel better when it comes to him, but it’s a hard thing to do.