I don’t think I have ever stopped to think about the fact that what we are doing in our marriages is what we are doing in our lives, because it’s not something that we don’t want to do. If we are doing it out of a love that we have for one another, we should be doing it out of a love for our children. Yet, when we are doing it we just seem to do it.
We don’t seem to know that there is a better way to be in our marriages. There is a need to have the children we have with our marriages be a reflection of our marriage. Yet, when we are doing it we just seem to do it.
I want to do the best for my child. I want to be him or her best for my child and I am not able to do that with the people that I have been with. I could do that with my parents or anyone I have ever been with, but not in my marriage.
When we are doing it, we do it as if we are doing it for our marriage. We think that what we are doing is for our relationship, but we are not really sure, and we continue to do it even though we know it is not working.
I’ve been married for almost a decade, and I have been married to my husband for over 10 years. And that’s where I feel the biggest problem with our marriage is. I feel like my husband has never truly allowed me the time to have my own life, and he has never allowed me the time to make my own decisions.
It seems pretty clear that we don’t allow for our own decisions or happiness to form part of our marriage. But the problem is that our marriage is our relationship. Our relationship is the foundation and the bedrock of our marriage. We are the foundation upon which our relationship is built. Everything else is just a by-product of that.
There is a lot of talk this year about the importance of marriage as a foundation to our lives. It’s a subject that many people have their own opinions on, but I’m not convinced. When something goes wrong in our life, that’s when things go wrong. So marriage is not about being perfect on a daily basis, but about being imperfect in the relationship. No matter what we think, there is always a reason why we’re having this fight.
Marriage is not about just “being together.” It’s about how well we both love and trust each other. What we focus on is how well we are able to communicate, trust each other, and stay together. That we are able to go back and forth with things, is what marriage is about. It’s not about being together, but about being able to communicate and trust each other.
Not to say that marriage was always easy. I was married for twenty years, and I’ve been in many a difficult one. But marriage is supposed to be about making each other happy and being in a partnership. We’ve gotten pretty good at communicating and we’ve made a lot of progress in the last ten years. But it’s a lot to deal with.
A lot of this probably stems from the fact that we were raised in a Christian home, but the truth is that there are so few people out there who are able to communicate and trust each other. It’s a shame, but it happens. The trouble is, we can’t all be happy together, and we can’t all be happy ever.