This is an all-too-common response to a death, that it’s not good. People are going to say, “It was so horrible, I just feel so bad.” Or, “I feel as if I would have been better off if she had not died.” Or, “I can’t believe she’s gone.” This response can be seen in everything from the moment an accident happens to the aftermath.

This is a question I have asked myself many times over the years. Why do I feel as if I would have been better off if she had not died? Why do I think I would have been better off had the accident not happened? The answer is that we can’t really know the answer to a question like this. It’s a judgment call, and it comes down to what we think we would have done if the situation had been different.

That’s the case for me too. I like the idea of not being able to have regrets. I’m sure I wouldn’t have been as happy if I was driving instead of walking down the street. But I can’t say that with any certainty.

That’s the problem with some people when it comes to making decisions. They are uncertain. They are afraid of the unknown. They are afraid of making a mistake. You are afraid of making a mistake, because you don’t want to think that what you are doing is wrong. That fear is what gives you the drive to want to get it right. And a lot of people, like myself, cannot afford the luxury of worrying about that fear.

The first instinct when someone is killed by a knife or bullet is to find out who it was. That could be someone from work, or it could be some guy you know, or it could be someone who looks like you. But a lot of the time the first instinct is to assume it was someone with a gun. As with all things, there are exceptions. A woman in my office recently died from a bullet wound. At the hospital it was a guy.

A number of incidents like this make you wonder if there aren’t some things that we just don’t know about human nature. For instance, why do we all feel that the first instinct is to assume someone was involved in a murder? As another example, I remember a woman I worked with in a law firm once being in an elevator when a bullet entered her neck. She was bleeding profusely and crying out in pain when the elevator door opened.

One can get the feeling that there are certain human tendencies that are hard to understand, but we don’t always know about them. It is human nature, after all. But it’s also just human. We can only know so much about it, and it’s part of our nature to assume there is more to it than there really is.

The woman who was killed by a bullet from a gun that we never found. The woman who was murdered in a dark alley in the middle of the night by a man who we never found. The woman who was shot in a shopping mall with a gun that we never found. The woman who was killed by a bullet fired into a tree with a gun that we never found.

It can be downright terrifying to think we may never know the full truth about something. As it turns out, the truth about many things is more complicated than we ever imagined.

The truth about many things is more complicated than we ever imagined. This is because there are a wide variety of factors that are often overlooked when it comes to the case of a crime. We may never know why a person shot someone; there may be no evidence of the shooting; the shooting may have been a random act of violence; there may be no motive; or the shooting may have been an accident.