Yes, our wives and husbands will occasionally get on our nerves. However, they can be there for the important stuff, like family time and activities. We cannot always shield our wives with words we don’t like. Sometimes that’s just the way it is. Maybe we need to learn to say the things we don’t like to say.
In our marriage, we often choose not to speak our mind to our wives and husbands because we fear the consequences of it. The thing is, we are often wrong as well. The problem is that in our relationships with our wives and husbands, we tend to be very judgmental. We judge them based on how they speak, dress, act, or how they look. We’re very careful to avoid saying something we consider inappropriate.
We could also be so much more open and honest with our wives and husbands. We have to be more discerning when we are around them because they will judge us more harshly if we aren’t open and honest with them, as opposed to judging them based on how they act around us.
This is a common criticism of women. We might be doing things in our homes that we don’t like, we may not be spending a lot of time with them, or we may not be doing things that are enjoyable to them. Most women will understand that it is our right to do things in our own homes that we don’t like, but we are more likely to be more understanding and forgiving when we are around them.
I wasnt raised with a lot of patience and I am not going to take that as a bad thing. Like most of my relatives (except my parents), I have had to work hard to be able to live a relatively comfortable life. I think that people need to be a little more open and honest with each other. When I started dating more than a year ago, I started to hear all sorts of comments about how I wasn’t being a good enough wife.
My point is, people who are married shouldn’t have to prove to the world that they are a good wife. If they do, they risk being labeled as being unfaithful or having a bad marriage. This is especially true of girls. I think a wife needs to have a certain amount of responsibility for her husband, even if it isnt necessarily a full-time job. Just because you spend time with him, doesn’t make him your husband.
I don’t think a wife needs to do anything about her husband, but it is still very important to show him love, respect, and care. You want to be a good wife, but don’t expect much love from your husband. And if that doesnt happen, its up to you to work on yourself. I will say, though, that a woman will be harder to love than a man because women arent as emotional as men.
In case this hasnt come across yet, the same principle applies to men. Men are emotional by nature, and when they are on the receiving end of emotional pain they tend to be more demanding and manipulative. The same applies to women. In my opinion, a man is not ready to be a good or decent human being without some sort of emotional connection to his wife.