Getting Tired of cheer someone on? 10 Sources of Inspiration That’ll Rekindle Your Love
To be honest, when I was younger I was the most awkward person in the world. I would always sit in my room alone, watching television and daydreaming about things I wished I could do instead of the things I did. By the time I was in my early 20s, however, I was able to have a quiet place to work on self-improvement and learning how to be a better person. This is when self-awareness became a priority.
Self-awareness doesn’t come easy though. As kids we are constantly bombarded with messages telling us that we are not good enough. We are always told to do things that are “bad” and that we “should’ve” done. The problem is that in the first place, we can’t do anything that is bad, because our minds can only process so much information.
This is the same problem I had when I was a kid. I would play video games, and as I played, I would become more and more self-aware about what I was doing in the game. It became a competition. I tried to beat my friends, or my parents, or anyone on the internet to see who could have the most self-awareness. I would always win, of course.
The problem isn’t just that we lose our sense of being bad. It’s that our self-awareness becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If we learn to be good, we will eventually lose our self-awareness. We will learn that we are bad, and so the people who are trying to get us to be good will come looking for us. So in the end, people will become so good at being bad that we will no longer know what that feels like.
We’re not just losing our own sense of self. We’re losing the sense of who we are as individuals. In this way, we have to be very careful when we approach our peers. If we try too hard to be someone we’re not, we will end up being a version of ourselves not entirely unlike them.
It’s the people who are the most self-aware we have to keep in mind when we approach these people. We want to be just like them, and that means we have to be just like them, so we need to constantly be looking for the signs of someone trying to be bad.
That’s exactly what you need to do. If we want to be the best friends we can be, we need to realize that we want to be that person. We can’t be the same as all the other people we know, and we can’t be ourselves just because we’re friends or relatives. We can only be ourselves if we put ourselves in the shoes of someone who is very different from ourselves. This is why we need to have a little self-awareness.
You must have heard of a little blog called “The Happiness Blog.” Its premise is that the secret to happiness is in focusing on your own happiness, not on the happiness of others. This philosophy may sound simple, but many people struggle with it, even if they take a moment to reflect on why it may sound so simple.
People have been making their own happiness a priority since the dawn of time, and we’ve all been very happy. If you’re reading this, you are most likely one of the ones who is struggling with self-awareness.
It certainly helps to think we are just as happy as anyone else. However, because we are aware of our own happiness, we have an opportunity to be aware of the happiness of others. If you aren’t aware of your own happiness, what good are your efforts? They won’t matter. Your efforts are just a waste of time. This leads many people to the conclusion that their efforts don’t count, but they probably do.